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Sunday, November 4, 2012

Sharing a Moment With Somebody:

By Dean Miller


The basic research of human conversation is a complicated art. It seems easy but there are many barriers that get in the approach. There are barriers within us, as there are barriers within the other particular person. Some barriers are situational, whilst other barriers we struggle with all our life. But gaining a rapport, creating a moment of friendly intimacy, is not that challenging. If we are able to attain one moment of genuine connection with one more person, we are able to achieve many of these. It all depends on how vulnerable we are in their presence, and how vulnerable they allow themselves to be in ours.

It is a large misnomer that we are weak if we show vulnerability. No, if we are intentionally vulnerable we show amazing strength. And we are not vulnerable just for the sake of it, we are vulnerable to invite others' vulnerability - we trust them with our weeknesses so they might trust us with theirs. This is the simply way an intimate connection may be formed. And let's just get this straight; Jesus desired that we would be ready and available for others, appreciating that we frequently want others ready and available for us.

The issue of weeknesses is an important one. We cannot assume somebody else to be prone - to be available to be in successful relationship - unless we model the behavior. When we do to others what we wish them to do to us, it begins from us. And we have to comprehend that being prone won't be repaid in kind all the time or even most of the time. But we need to be prepared to show the power of character in the will to relate. We cannot turn such a point on and off. It requirements to be part of our basic operation in all our connections - besides where it would be openly abused.

A moment, in this speak, is a second that is transformed by the energy of God; where a brief bond between two people is achieved through typical trust and respect. Upon such a second we note the Presence of God. Reaching a moment such as this goes past all cultural norms and enters the realm of Divinity. We go from a state of many sociable fears into a state of peaceful for the holiness in such a instant. God is there in our midst, inside and between both the protagonists. Only one of these occasions is needed and the rapport between these two men and women is solidified.

The greatest of human experience is the understanding of God in relationship with another person. When we not only understand God, alone, but now in the organization of another, our pleasure of God is doubled. The power of the altered life is the ability to with confidence and vulnerably share a moment with an additional person. When we can be available and honest we are safe to be with. People love to interact with people who are safe and sound to be with. Be risk-free to be with.




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